Going through stages


The euphoria stage is pretty much over in Libya. There are still lots of flags to be seen all over, and people are still proudly displaying red, black and green, the colors of independence. In the weeks following the liberation there was a rush to hold bazaars where they charged an entrance fee and sold crafts, plants, home baked goods, clothing, and offered games for the children while in the background, music inspired by the revolution was blasting. In those early days there were charity events of all kinds, anything to raise the spirit and make money for those in need. Actually, I heard that the number of new charity organizations soared to over 700 but I'm not sure what the official figures were and if there are still that many. 

There were huge drives to collect old clothes. I don't know what they intended to do with them, because I know very few Libyans wear used clothing. One woman told me that many charities sent much of the donated clothing to recyclers and then later sold the bales of shredded fabric to various manufacturers. Throughout Tripoli, people stood on street corners with collection boxes and most gas stations and many supermarkets had boxes where people could toss in their spare change. 

The bazaar phase has died down now, possibly because so many people wondered where all the collected funds were going and the lack of any monitoring surely meant that much of the money may have landed in peoples' pockets. But the bazaars served another purpose - citizens got the chance to publicly show support for their newly liberated country, and for those who had been supporters of the former regime found that organizing and attending bazaars gave them a very public venue to show that they'd switched sides - a way to try to wipe their slates clean.

Nowadays Libya is going through the lecture series stage. NGO's have popped up everywhere offering lectures and workshops for all sorts of things; civic awareness and women's issues seem to be near the top of the lists. There are many seminars for doctors and the medical community too. You don't even have to leave home as Libyan satellite television channels are awash with talk shows with the lecture series flare. 

In spite of all the good works that are going on, the crime rate is rising. We've heard of many houses and farms being burgled, and it's hit very close to home recently with my brother-in-law's farm right next to ours being burgled. We were awoken about 4am when our dogs started barking. My husband opened the window and called out to quiet them and we went back to sleep. In the morning my brother-in-law discovered all of his sheep were missing. My husband had inadvertently helped the thieves by quieting our dogs! But in hindsight, it wouldn't have been safe to go outside as the burglars were most likely armed - and dangerous.

Another incident happened a few nights ago, at about 3:30am, my daughter Sara heard the sound of our gate being opened. She ran in to our bedroom to wake us and my husband ran out of the house so quickly to investigate that he took his pillow with him. Our gate was wide open but he found no one there and nothing was missing. But the event has left us feeling very vulnerable. But we laugh when we recall my husband and his trusty pillow - maybe he could use it to smother the thieves!

This past week we've also noticed an increase in check-points because of the problems in Beni Walid. One evening I had to pass through twelve checkpoints on my way home from work (normally there is only one or two). We've also heard reports that in the past week there have been gun battles in areas around Tripoli, and even a firefight taking place inside the emergency room of Central Hospital. Gunfire can still be heard periodically throughout the day. 

Even worse than the rise in theft and the sound of guns is the news of girls and children being abducted. Last week one of my daughter's friends disappeared. She was on her way home from university and had boarded a bus with her neighbor. She called her mother to say she was on the bus and would be home soon - they'd planned to go out together as soon as she got home. But the girls never made it home. Their mobile phones were switched off and they've disappeared without a trace. If I didn't know the family personally I'd have dismissed the story as a rumor - but it's true. I cannot even begin to imagine what the family is going through. The girls check in with the missing girl's sister at regular intervals to see if there is any news. Lots of tears are being shed in our house as we wait and pray for her to return home safely. It's just so upsetting. 

If something like this happened in a western country there would be alerts all over the media, but here it's kept quiet in the hopes of protecting the girl and her family's honor. One wonders who is behind such crimes. Is this the work of Kaddafi supporters? Or some criminal or psychopath that's escaped (or been let loose) from the prison? Or just a random crime? Only God knows. We hope and pray for the girl's safe return. 

We know that it will take time for Libya to get back on its feet again. Soon it will be the anniversary of the uprising. Has it really been a year? So much has happened, so many changes. I'm trying so hard to be optimistic, but sometimes it's hard, so very hard.

Comments

  1. Mashallah Khadijah, a very good account of where we actually are at this present time , well done , but like you said it is so sad about the young girls , we must relise that at present it is not safe to go out alone, what ever age in my opinion, inshallah we pray for their safe return to their families , I can;t imagine what they are going through ,
    so every one stay safe .......

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  2. I have spent over a month now between Tipoli and Benghazi, I agree the honeymoon period is certainly over. The country needs police and military, it needs civic standards to return a sense of security to law abiding Libyans all over the country. Having ICC war criminals, like Saif, the wanted WAR criminal, sitting without trial shows all potential and actual criminals that the current Libyan state is unable to police, try and judge Criminals. Let's hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.

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  3. Hi, Teri. A sobering post. I can only sympathize. It will take time for the violence that has been unleashed in the whole region to subside. And unfortunately, the West has no real interest in seeing true democracies develop in liberated countries. The stakes are very high. Beware the NGOs.
    And the abduction of girls is obscene. You are in my prayers.
    best, nadia

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  4. It's really sad when we heard like these stories in Libya,
    I hope that in next few days our country getting better soon and recover from the war which generate a lot of pains for most of the families.
    I can feel the mother feeling now when she worry about her daughter and I pray for her to be a patient and get her daughter back soon.Inshallah.

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  5. I am so, so sorry for the abduction of the 2 young women. I hope they will quickly be found safe and well.

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  6. But how will they get their daughter back if everyone isn't on the lookout for her?

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  7. Sorry to hear about that, praying for their safe return... and more peace throughout the country.

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  8. Sorry to hear about that, praying for their safe return... and more peace throughout the country.

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  9. So sorry, praying for their safe return, inshallah, and more peace, good sense, and community caring for each other prevailing throughout the country.

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  10. So glad to hear they're home. I hope things start to settle soon. I giggled at the pillow story but I would be quietly terrified about intruders. There was an article in the NYT times about people from Mali returning home with all of their newly acquired weapons supplied by Ghaddafi.

    I wish you peace.

    Kirstyxx

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  11. i wish you all the best and a peaceful future. The story with the pillow is very funny (i might have done the same :-) )

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