Thursday, April 06, 2006
'me time' and 'in-law time'
More 'me time' last night. A get-together with many of the American ladies who've been here for years and years. We never go hungry when we meet - last night was no exception; sloppy joes, potato salad, macaroni salad, grilled lamb, corn, mixed salad and eggplant salad - I can't even begin to describe the desserts! - yummy!
I really needed the 'me time' because next week will be 'in-law time'. The Islamic holiday called Miloud is next week. This is Prophet Mohamed's birthday and actually in Islam, birthdays aren't celebrated. In Libya Miloud is celebrated with the kids getting new clothes, toys and setting off fireworks and for breakfast many people eat a traditional dish called asida. Many of the women will get new clothes too.
My in-laws like to act as though they are so super religious and say Miloud celebrations are 'bida' (innovation) and shouldn't be celebrated. But at the same time they'll all be showing off the new clothes they bought for the occasion, etc, etc, etc. uuugh! - I'll go as usual, sit quietly and let the kids have fun. I always bring a magazine or a book to read (I've got 2 National Geographics that I haven't read yet - saving them just for the occasion).
I'll survive. I always do. . . . got to remember to stop by the pharmacy and pick up some panadol.
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You are actually READING while visiting in-laws????
ReplyDeleteHow do you manage?
I always bring something with me to read whereever I go - I can read in all kinds of situations, I've gotten used to it.
ReplyDeleteyour lucky you get to read. My goodness if I tried that Mr. Man would have heart failure. Reading would be seen as 'disrespectful' and me feeling 'superior' yadda yadda.
ReplyDeleteThey don't celebrate the Mawlid here in Saudi. Now that isn't surprising lol
You really didn't have to say a bunch of american women got together. Just by the list of food I could tell. Potato salad.. mmmm sloppy joes.. lol yea no americans there.
nzinga - yes I read! On the occasions that I forget to bring a book I take a nap - this is especially easy since we're sitting on cushions with pillows there.
ReplyDeleteIf it weren't for Panadol I don't know what I'd do.You know the song "Money makes the world go around.... "(Cabaret, Liza Minelli)
ReplyDeletefor me it's PANADOL !