tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post114579261601279120..comments2024-03-08T01:07:51.656-05:00Comments on KhadijaTeri: I have made a decision...KhadijaTerihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01279047119702679252noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1146043301758666982006-04-26T05:21:00.000-04:002006-04-26T05:21:00.000-04:00Well done Khadija !Invite some of their friends ov...Well done Khadija !<BR/>Invite some of their friends over and see what happens!Keep us posted!Desert Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222949246654591658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1146042614993940112006-04-26T05:10:00.000-04:002006-04-26T05:10:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Desert Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222949246654591658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145996504350696412006-04-25T16:21:00.000-04:002006-04-25T16:21:00.000-04:00An Update!Hubby is sure becoming tired of being th...An Update!<BR/>Hubby is sure becoming tired of being the sole authority of the house. He finally managed to get the kids to wash the dishes. I heard the girls argueing with who's turn it was. When I got home from work today I found a clean kitchen.KhadijaTerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01279047119702679252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145969987925748522006-04-25T08:59:00.000-04:002006-04-25T08:59:00.000-04:00"You'll need to motivate your man to support your ..."You'll need to motivate your man to support your authority and teach those kids to understand they must listen to you. and this is one way to do it. "<BR/><BR/>- as if taken from dr. Phil from his show!<BR/>Again and again dr. Phil underlines the truth of consequences and the cooperation between parents when raising children.LadyCrochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11725989450693309463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145944424780213532006-04-25T01:53:00.000-04:002006-04-25T01:53:00.000-04:00because Mr. Man here is a work a holic I am the au...because Mr. Man here is a work a holic I am the authority here. The kids seek me out when he tells them to do something. They think they can play the game but I'm not allowing it. But your much deeper in at this point. You'll need to motivate your man to support your authority and teach those kids to understand they must listen to you. and this is one way to do it. <BR/><BR/>I would also skip out on doing any laundry.. can't put it away I certainly can't wash it. Laundry strikes.. I love 'em.Ann Tamimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12915646056815128431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145912362888792992006-04-24T16:59:00.000-04:002006-04-24T16:59:00.000-04:00???.. ???????. ????? ????? ??????? ?? ???? ???????...???.. ???????. ????? ????? <BR/>??????? ?? ???? ??????? ?? ??????? ??? ?? ???? ??? ????? ???? ????? ???? ???? ????? ??????? ????? ??? ???? ? ?????? ????? ???? ??? ????? ?? ????? ?????? .?? ??? ???? . ??? ??? ???? ???? ??? ???? ????? ?????? ??????? . ??????? ??? ?????? ?????? ????? ????? ???? ?????? ?????? ?????? ????? ?????? ??? ?????? ??? ???.<BR/>??? ????? ?????? ?? ???? ???? ??? ??? ???? ????? ???? ???? ?????? ??? ?????? ?? ??? .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145909653349933662006-04-24T16:14:00.000-04:002006-04-24T16:14:00.000-04:00UUUgh! Dr Phil just makes my skin crawl.UUUgh! Dr Phil just makes my skin crawl.KhadijaTerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01279047119702679252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145883054405602562006-04-24T08:50:00.000-04:002006-04-24T08:50:00.000-04:00Excuse me Miss Khadija but this is not a solution....Excuse me Miss Khadija but this is not a solution. You are just hiding your head in the sand thinking you are safe. The best solution is TO CONFRONT in stead of sneaking away. Talk to your husband and be firm with the children. You're their mother after all.Believe me if things go wrong after your decision you won't be stress free.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145867136362593472006-04-24T04:25:00.000-04:002006-04-24T04:25:00.000-04:00I agree Safia.I too am addicted to the programme.I agree Safia.I too am addicted to the programme.Desert Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222949246654591658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145811904694750402006-04-23T13:05:00.000-04:002006-04-23T13:05:00.000-04:00Yes sis T, amazingly when the kids invite anyone, ...Yes sis T, amazingly when the kids invite anyone, they clean up the entire house withouth me having to say a word!<BR/><BR/>recently I asked my son to carry the laundry basket down into the cellar - he refused. So I skipped laundry hours and next day he asked me, where his clean clothes are? I showed him the full basket. "Why didn´t you wash, Mum?", he asked me?<BR/>I told him: "Every time you or your sister refuses to help me when I ask you, I simply skip the work and wait again for next week." He looked at me in disbelief.<BR/>Tomorrow eve is laundry time in the cellar - let´s see what will happen...I am ready to do the same tomorrow, even if this means kids have to go to school in old clothes.<BR/><BR/>BTW, sis K, what is wrong with dear dr. Phil? He is marvellous!LadyCrochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11725989450693309463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145811892037219442006-04-23T13:04:00.000-04:002006-04-23T13:04:00.000-04:00Good luck Khadija - keep us posted as to how this ...Good luck Khadija - keep us posted as to how this works out for you. I can certainly understand your frustration - makes me so glad that I was a single parent - so what I said went - noone to run intereference. LOL.egianqueenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13314879262600708271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8439435.post-1145793184226357782006-04-23T07:53:00.000-04:002006-04-23T07:53:00.000-04:00Yes dear Khadija and a right decision it is.They'r...Yes dear Khadija and a right decision it is.<BR/>They're all responsible for their home it's not yours only. You should see how my house is spic and span when their friends come over! It gets to a point where I'm inviting them over !!!Now here's a good one THEY'RE TIRED!!Desert Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222949246654591658noreply@blogger.com